Have you talked to your kids, tweens or teens about birth control and/or sex? Talking to kids about sex and how to get birth control can be awkward, or it can be a wonderful opportunity to open the lines of communication. Research about teen birth control decisions reveals that consistent teen birth control use happens in relationships where partners have discussed birth control prior to first having sex. Female teens who discuss contraception with their partners before sex are twice as likely to practice safe sex. Sixty two percent of females and 51% of males who discussed birth control with their partners before having sex for the first time reported always using contraception. Having the birth control talk, first with parents, may help facilitate these conversations between teen partners.
Many parents have questions about how to talk to their kids about sex and birth control options. So, if you have had the sex talk, please share how your sex discussion went. By doing so, other parents may gain some helpful tips on talking to their own kids about birth control and sex. And if you haven't had the talk yet and are looking for some guidance, see What Teens Want To Know: Sex Talk Advice for Parents...From a Teen's Point-of-View.
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I want to explain sex and contraception in a way that my daughter doesn't roll her eyes at me! I know that this firts talk sets the stage for future discussions, so I am afraid that I will mess it up…More
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We've had the talk (actually many talks) about sex and contraception. I have come to realize, though, that even though we talked about birth control, I never told him specifically about how to get it…More