What is Your Tubal Ligation Status?
I had my tubes laparoscopic tied after the birth of my 4th child. I am currently 38 and my kids range from 17-3 months. I was diagnosed with graves disease 8 yrs ago and was told getting pregnant would be difficult but I was okay with that since at the time I had already had 2 kids and I didnt want any kids in my 30's. But I had a baby when I was 35 and then another at 37. The last 2 prompted me to get my tubes tied. Since I do not wish to have any more children. I finally got my son after having 3 girls so my family is now complete. I thought about doing it 10 years ago but I'm glad I waited until now.
Obstacles in Your Tubal Decision
The only thing that scared me was the thought of them cutting into me while I was out. It is a scary thought knowing you will be sleeping and will not be able to control what goes on around you. But my experience was not bad at all. I dont remember being put under, I remember waking up. I wasn't in pain and the next day I went about my daily routine. I only took 1 Motrin the first night. I would say just breath and relax, it will be okay.
What I'd Do Differently
- Nothing. My sister had hers tied when she was 26 and now she wants another baby. I am at the right age 38 and I am glad I waited. I would of missed out on having my son if I had done it earlier. So I'm glad I waited until 2010.
What Were/Are Some of the Factors in Your Decision?
Rising costs and taking birth control. I didn't want to be on the pill or have to take a shot. I wanted something permanent and easy.
What was Most Helpful in Making Your Tubal Decision?
weigh the pros and cons for myself and my family
How Did You Know It Was “Time” for Permanent Measures?
I have 4 kids. 3 girls and 1 boy and I am getting older/
Did You Have One Single Deciding Factor?
no
