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How To Use Condoms and Prevent Condom Failure

By Dawn Stacey M.Ed, LMHC, About.com

Updated: July 08, 2009

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Condom Use

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Proper Condom Use:

OTC birth control is not perfect. Let’s face it, condoms can break and tear during sex. When condoms break, semen can leak out, so the use of vaginal spermicides with condoms can help to increase your pregnancy protection should condom failure occur. Typically, 2-5% of all condoms tear during condom use. This can generally be prevented by making sure that you use condoms the correct way.

If you have any questions about your birth control method, please contact your doctor. You will lower your chances for condom failure if you have a thorough understanding of proper condom use.

Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: 5 minutes

Here's How:

  1. Check the expiration date on the condom package. Throw out the condom and open a new box if the condom has expired.

  2. Read the directions.

  3. Check the condom wrapper for any punctures by feeling the package/wrapper to see if it contains an air bubble. Throw out the condom if there is no air bubble and try a new one.

  4. Carefully tear open the condom package, making certain not to tear the condom. Inspect the condom for any obvious tears.

  5. The condom should be put on after the penis is erect but before there is any contact between you and your partner. Make sure you are putting the condom on the right way by leaving room at the top. You can do this by pinching the tip of the condom to remove any air. This allows room for the ejaculate after the condom is rolled on the penis.

  6. Make sure that you are rolling it on in the proper direction. Place it on so that it unrolls easily down the outside of the penis. You should not have to put your fingers inside the condom to unroll it.

  7. Begin to roll the condom down the shaft of the penis while holding the tip. There should be room at the end (tip) of the condom, but there should not be any air trapped inside. Continue to roll the condom the rest of the way down the penis.

  8. After ejaculation, make sure to take the condom off properly by holding the rim (base of the condom) firmly while carefully withdrawing your penis. Then, slide the condom off (away from the vagina).

  9. Tie the condom in a knot - away from the vagina. Then you can throw it out in a garbage can. It is not a wise idea to flush a condom down the toilet as this can cause the toilet to clog.

Tips:

  1. Don’t use condoms once their expiration date has passed, and make sure to store condoms properly (not in hot places or wallets).

  2. Never reuse a condom. You should always change your condom each time you have any type of sex (vaginal, oral or anal). Do not use the same condom if you switch from, let's say, vaginal sex to anal intercourse.

  3. Some people prefer to lubricate the outside of the condom. Using lubrication can help reduce the risk of condom breakage. Make sure to only use water-based lubricants (such as KY jelly, Astroglide, etc) or silicone-based lubricants intended for male condom use. Any oil-based or petroleum-based products (like Vaseline) will compromise the integrity of the condom.

  4. Some men find that putting a little bit of water-based lubricant inside the tip of the condom can increase their pleasure. If you do this, make sure to only use a very small drop as you don’t want the condom to slide off. Keep in mind that frequent use of N-9 (nonoxynol-9) based lubricants could increase your risk of STDs, so do not use lubricants containing N-9 if you are having a lot of sex.

  5. Finally:
    • Watch out for fingernails and/or jewelry which can also cause tears in the condom.

    • Do not "double-bag" condoms (use two condoms at the same time)

    • Never use a male condom with a female condom.
    A parting note about condom use and condom failure, sometimes, no matter what you do, a condom will break. It is always possible that the condom could have been damaged sometime during or after production. Remember, no method is 100% effective!

What You Need:

  • Condom (have more than one in case you make a mistake)
  • Lubrication (if you prefer)
  • NO excuses
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